Building Up Another’s Life

In Daily Devotional by Darryl Dash

Bible Passage: “But you know his proven character, because he has served with me in the gospel ministry like a son with a father.” (Philippians 2:22)

Scripture Reading: Philippians 2:19-30

A young man named Paul showed up at college. He was self-centered, didn’t know the Bible, and felt cocky.

Tim, who was taking a year of Bible training, began to meet with him.

Every Friday morning, they’d meet in a dorm room at 6:30. At first, Tim would teach Paul the things he was learning from the Bible on subjects like humility, pride, and purity. Later, Paul would teach, and Tim would evaluate.

Eventually, the meetings turned personal. Was Paul reading the Bible? How was he spending his time and his money? They also held each other accountable in key areas of their life.

The meetings only lasted seven months, but Paul says that those meetings changed him. “I often wonder where my life would have gone if the Lord had not injected Tim into it.”

What Tim did with Paul, Paul began to do with others. “Since 1985, there has really never been a time in my life when I was not meeting with other men, seeking to urge them on in their walk with Jesus,” says Paul. “To my great joy, many of these men have gone on to become far better Christians than me.”

It’s not fancy. It involves just a few things: two men, a Bible, and a willingness to learn together. It requires a small investment of time, and for you to care.

But the payoff is eternal. “Spending time with a brother to entrust the Gospel to him is never a waste of time,” Paul says.

Devote your life to discipling other guys. You’re more ready than you think. With God’s help, it can be one of the most significant things you do with your life.

Prayer: Thank You that You use people like Tim, Paul, and me to disciple others. Amen.

Reflection: What’s the next step you can take in becoming a “Tim” to others?


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Darryl Dash
Darryl Dash (@DashHouse) is author of How to Grow: Applying the Gospel to All of Your Life and 8 Habits for Growth: A Simple Guide to Becoming More Like Christ. He serves as pastor of Grace Fellowship Church East Toronto, and is also cofounder of Gospel for Life. He has a Doctor of Ministry degree from Gordon-Conwell Theological Seminary, and has over 30 years of ministry experience. Darryl is married to Charlene, and has two adult children.
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Darryl Dash
Darryl Dash (@DashHouse) is author of How to Grow: Applying the Gospel to All of Your Life and 8 Habits for Growth: A Simple Guide to Becoming More Like Christ. He serves as pastor of Grace Fellowship Church East Toronto, and is also cofounder of Gospel for Life. He has a Doctor of Ministry degree from Gordon-Conwell Theological Seminary, and has over 30 years of ministry experience. Darryl is married to Charlene, and has two adult children.