Summarizing Grief

In Daily Devotional by Jacques Van Dyk

Bible Verse: “Therefore groan, son of man! Groan before them with broken heart and bitter grief.” (Ezekiel 21:6)

Scripture Reading: Matthew 26:36-45

It’s interesting to note that when you search for the word “grief” in the Bible, most references come from the Old Testament. In my opinion, it seems there was less hope and more grief in the days before Christ. However, Jesus died for our sins, which helps us process the grief that we can, at times, bring upon ourselves.

This week, we explored different aspects of grief. We discussed the pain of losing a loved one and reflected on the lessons we can learn from the story of Job, who tragically lost his children. We emphasized the importance of being honest with ourselves and others about the emotions and pain we experience when we grieve.

The day after, we examined the grief of a broken relationship. We acknowledged our need for community and discussed the significance of praying and working to mend broken relationships. If reconciliation is impossible, we recognize the importance of entrusting the situation to God.

Next, we examined the grief we experience when we lose a job. As men, we find purpose in our work as we need to provide for our families. We trust God because He sees our future and knows the bigger picture. In most cases, the lost job turns into a more incredible blessing down the road.

We then examine the grief of betrayal. We remembered that no one knows betrayal better than Jesus. All His followers deserted Him when He was arrested, yet He forgave them all and reconciled with each of them.

The last form of grief we explored is the grief that our sin causes God. We grieve the Holy Spirit when we deliberately choose a different path from God’s. However, God’s forgiveness is a comforting balm for our souls, always available if we confess our shortcomings to Him with a sincere heart.

There are many forms of grief, and there is a good God who meets us in all of it and heals what is broken.

Prayer: Dear Father, may these devotionals about grief help men realize that they are not alone when dealing with heartache. You are always there with us, understanding our pain and supporting us. I ask for Your blessings upon each one of them. Amen.

Reflection: Take a moment to reflect on how you might deal differently with grief the next time it arises.


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Jacques Van Dyk
Jacques Van Dyk is a content writer and network leader at Impactus. He has been attending the Peoples Church in Toronto for ten years, where he recently started a life group for men. He is passionate about reaching men who want to grow in faith. Jacques is married to Nancy with four children and one grandchild and lives in Vaughan, Ontario.
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Jacques Van Dyk
Jacques Van Dyk is a content writer and network leader at Impactus. He has been attending the Peoples Church in Toronto for ten years, where he recently started a life group for men. He is passionate about reaching men who want to grow in faith. Jacques is married to Nancy with four children and one grandchild and lives in Vaughan, Ontario.