For over 30 years, I was a pastor caring for people experiencing grief and loss. But it wasn’t until Nancy, my wife of 40 years, died that I truly discovered …
3 Callings God Gives to Single Men
First, a confession: Men’s ministries have not always done well ministering to “singleness.” No doubt they teach and practice much concerning masculinity that has nothing to do with one’s relationship …
When Our Pain Affects Those We Love
Have you ever caught yourself snapping at your kids after a rough day at work? Or found yourself pulling back emotionally from your spouse because of a fight you had …
When You Truly Hate Someone
I’m writing this as the National Hockey League’s Stanley Cup playoffs meander awkwardly near summer (which seems so wrong). For some, at this time of year, it is the loathing …
4 Qualities of a Good Dad
What makes a good dad? Now there’s a good question. As a dad six times over, I’ve asked this question many times, especially after being sure I’ve colossally messed it …
When Porn Becomes Sex Education
“Sex is dirty, gross, and shameful—save it for someone special.” That was one person’s response when asked to summarize the Christian sex education they received growing up. Others I interviewed …
What Happens When We Honor Our Fathers
A few years back, my wife and I were out for lunch with some friends. We were having a great time together, catching up on our lives, laughing a bit, …
Good Dads are Good Coaches
The drive from the game to the pizza shop was quiet. Liam, my 13-year-old son, and his rep basketball team had just won their second game in a row, but …
Living Faithfully as an Adult Son
I’m not a huge Star Wars fan, but even I know the scene from The Empire Strikes Back when a grown-up Luke Skywalker battles Darth Vader with 1980s special effect …
5 Tips for Teaching Your Kids the Bible
I hear from other dads all the time: “What are you doing to teach your kids the Bible?” Men know they are “supposed” to be sharing Scripture with their kids. …