“There cannot be a stressful crisis next week. My schedule is already full.” – Henry Kissinger If you have ever felt that adding one more thing to your life is …
Lessons in Love from the Song of Solomon
In the natural world, seasons come and go in a perpetual cycle. No man finds himself asking, “What if this year, things are different? What if this time, the winter …
Finding a Work/Life Balance
When we think about “work” and “life,” those two words are deeply relatable to most men. If you’re reading this, those words have probably already got you thinking about your …
What Grieving Men Need Most (and Least)
For over 30 years, I was a pastor caring for people experiencing grief and loss. But it wasn’t until Nancy, my wife of 40 years, died that I truly discovered …
3 Callings God Gives to Single Men
First, a confession: Men’s ministries have not always done well ministering to “singleness.” No doubt they teach and practice much concerning masculinity that has nothing to do with one’s relationship …
Should a Christian Man Love His Country?
Should a Christian man love his country? Short answer: Of course. (With a great big Jesus-centered “but…”) As for the longer answer: I. Am. Canadian. (Hey Canadian men—remember this guy? …
When Our Pain Affects Those We Love
Have you ever caught yourself snapping at your kids after a rough day at work? Or found yourself pulling back emotionally from your spouse because of a fight you had …
Jesus’ Master Strategy for Success
The sun crested the eastern horizon, setting the clouds aflame with magnificent shades of tangerine and citron. A warm breeze blew off the western sea, promising a hot day to …
When You Truly Hate Someone
I’m writing this as the National Hockey League’s Stanley Cup playoffs meander awkwardly near summer (which seems so wrong). For some, at this time of year, it is the loathing …
4 Qualities of a Good Dad
What makes a good dad? Now there’s a good question. As a dad six times over, I’ve asked this question many times, especially after being sure I’ve colossally messed it …